I\u2009am going to tell you two stories today: a short one about dead cats and a long one about dead people.<\/p>\n
First, dead cats. Now, I know you might be tired of so many talks beginning with stories about dead cats, but bear with me.<\/p>\n
My parents\u2019 views on pets\u2014cats or otherwise\u2014could not have been more different. My mother grew up in a household that didn\u2019t allow animals in the house; my dad grew up in a home where pets, at one point even including a monkey, were allowed inside. Over their sixty-some-odd years of marriage, my parents struck a bit of a compromise about pets in our home. Smaller cage-bound animals such as hamsters, snakes, frogs, toads, and fish were allowed inside, but larger animals such as cats, dogs, and any animal destined to become dinner stayed in the garage, the doghouse, or the chicken coop. Dogs were confined, but cats were free to roam. Well, they were free to roam as long as I didn\u2019t pick them up and dress them in my dolls\u2019 clothing\u2014a fate most of them contemplated with a mixture of trepidation and resignation.<\/p>\n
When I was very young, we lived on a busy intersection with constant traffic. The combination of this location and the pet policy meant that cats\u2014and there seemed to be an endless parade of them that somehow ended up at our house\u2014rarely died of old age. I liked the cats and mourned their loss, and at some point I began to memorize the names and faces of all the cats who had lived, loved, and then shuffled off their mortal coils at our house. Eventually I was unable to keep all of the memories and names straight, and, concerned, I asked my mom whether all those cats would meet us in heaven and whether they would recognize us and we them. She assured me that they would\u2014that the cats would remember me and I them. Forever.<\/p>\n
Now, the impact of that story isn\u2019t so much about the cats, but it is<\/i> about my mother\u2019s assurances that relationships last, much like photographs of the two of us have lasted far beyond the moments they captured. Relationships are durable and meaningful\u2014even beyond death. This idea was central to my childhood. As the youngest of nine children, I arrived after three of my four grandparents, a handful of cousins, and my brother had died. Knowing that death would not forever prevent me from knowing those people was deeply comforting and grounding.<\/p>\n
In a way, that early understanding about relationships has shaped my professional pursuits. I have spent my entire adult life studying relationships, particularly family relationships, and the power they have\u2014for good or ill\u2014to shape social, economic, religious, political, material, and emotional possibilities and realities. My research focuses mostly on eighteenth-century England. This means I study dead people and what they can teach us. As Thomas W. Laqueur put it:<\/p>\n
The history . . . of the dead is a history of how they dwell in us\u2014individually and communally. It is a history of how we imagine them to be, how they give meaning to our lives. . . . It is a history . . . of how we invest the dead . . . with meaning.<\/i>1<\/sup><\/p>\n My research has taught me much about the meaning found in social and familial relationships in the past and today as well as about their undervalued potential to positively influence society and afford solutions for vexing problems.<\/p>\n So let me talk about some of those dead people. I am going to begin with the story of a particular dead person: William Dade. He was born in late 1740 or early 1741 in Yorkshire in northern England. His parents, who married in their early thirties, already had three children when William was born.2<\/sup> His father was the local vicar and had a handful of additional livings (or parishes that supplied his employment and income), so William and his siblings\u2014a sister and two brothers\u2014were raised in the relative comfort that typified the genteel \u201cmiddling sort\u201d of England, as the phrase went.3<\/sup><\/p>\n William was educated in Yorkshire schools, which required him to live away from home for long stretches of the year. Once they reached their late teens, both William and his eldest brother, Thomas, followed their father\u2019s path\u2014first to the University of Cambridge and then into the church.4<\/sup> Their mother died when William was twelve, and their father died when William was eighteen, around the time he entered Cambridge. Two years later their brother John died at age twenty-two and was buried alongside their parents in the parish church where their father had been vicar. A monument to their collective memory, likely commissioned by William and his surviving siblings, hangs in the church to this day.5<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n At the time of his father\u2019s death, Thomas, twenty-four and single, had been ordained, and his sister, twenty-three-year-old Mary, who was also single, presumably lived with him\u2014or perhaps with William, who left Cambridge that same year. Within two years William had his own living in the city of York, when he was only twenty-two.<\/p>\n So far, this a rather unremarkable story of an eighteenth-century English family. Their parents\u2019 marrying in their early thirties was not unusual for those who came of age in the early 1700s. On average women married at age twenty-six and men at age twenty-eight in that period.6<\/sup> It was not unusual for children to die before their parents, though it was more common for them to die in infancy or in childhood than in young adulthood, as in William\u2019s brother\u2019s case. In some places a third or more of children did not survive to see their tenth birthday.7<\/sup><\/p>\n Children of most classes, no matter their wealth, left home for employment or schooling in their mid-teens, as the Dade brothers did.8<\/sup> This included most young women\u2014though not usually women of the gentry or aristocracy. That the Dade siblings were not married in their mid-twenties was also not unusual for their cohort, which also coincided with large numbers of people who never married\u2014somewhere between 15 to 20 percent in the middle of the eighteenth century. (For comparison, current UK statistics suggest that as little as 4 percent and perhaps no more than 9 percent of the population never marries or partners.9<\/sup>)<\/p>\n That the brothers followed their father\u2019s occupational path into the church is similarly unremarkable: between a quarter and a third of eighteenth-century English clergymen were the sons of clergy. This was typical of the eighteenth century, in which were perpetuated\u2014often with great vigor\u2014socioeconomic distinctions and inequalities.10<\/sup><\/p>\n Also, typically, sibling relationships were important, including to the Dade family. Their parents\u2019 marrying later and dying relatively young meant that, for the Dade siblings\u2014and for many people in this period\u2014siblinghood was the most central and durable family relationship. People depended on siblings for a host of material, social, and emotional supports. Siblings were close, or not, in ways that might look familiar to you. These relationships had great solidarity and great power that few other relationships did.11<\/sup><\/p>\n They continue to have great power and influence today. If you ever search for photos of siblings on Google, you will find an array of images of siblings who, even as adults, are dressed in matching outfits\u2014a tradition not usually practiced beyond athletic teams. Let\u2019s just say that if any other adult suggested that you wear matching outfits, get matching haircuts, and have your picture taken, the happiness depicted in some of these photos would not be the likely outcome.<\/p>\n Like they are today, eighteenth-century siblings were lifelong, but unlike today, they were often on their own at the center of family relationships. Siblings came before spouses and children\u2014who arrived late in life, if they arrived at all\u2014and they outlasted parents who often died before all of their children reached age thirty.<\/p>\n These relationships weren\u2019t perfect; siblings fought and struggled with each other. Like it is for some of you and your siblings, it was not always easy for siblings to navigate a relationship that they did not choose but which was freighted with so many lifelong expectations. As one eighteenth-century man wrote to his brother:<\/p>\n Three wise words from your lips made me think you an inhabitant of another country. .<\/i> .<\/i> . You have the art to set me at a distance by three words when I am with you, and to draw me to you at a hundred miles off by the same method.<\/i>12<\/sup><\/p>\n To return to William Dade, his story to this point\u2014his late twenties\u2014was unremarkable and like thousands of others. But in 1770, as he entered his thirties, William made a remarkable decision. He decided that Church of England parish registers should contain more information than they typically did. He wanted, in his words, to improve \u201cthe imperfect method hitherto generally pursued.\u201d13<\/sup> If you think that doesn\u2019t sound all that earth-shattering, just be patient with me, because this was an astounding development\u2014a development with untapped potential to better the world today.<\/p>\n First I need to put William Dade\u2019s parish registers into a bit of context. English church registers began after Henry VIII\u2019s break with Rome and the establishment of the Church of England in the 1530s. From then until the eighteenth century, entries for baptisms, marriages, and burials typically had limited information. Baptism records might record only the name of the child, the date of the baptism, and the name of the child\u2019s father. Compared to continental registers, for example, English registers contained paltry information. For comparison, a Spanish record from 1764 contains not only the child\u2019s and father\u2019s names but also the mother\u2019s (including her original, or maiden, name), both sets of grandparents\u2019, and the godparents\u2019 names.14<\/sup> Even in the first half of the eighteenth-century, English registers became only marginally better: mother\u2019s first names, for example, were increasingly included. Sometimes extra bits and pieces might be included, such as the birthdate of the child or the occupation of the father.<\/p>\n William Dade himself benefited from an unusually detailed entry for his christening. Because his father was a vicar, the priest who christened William in a different parish took the time to include William\u2019s father\u2019s occupation and residence, but his mother was not named.<\/p>\n Dade followed common practice when he first became a curate, and he recorded the limited information that other parish priests did. But then in 1770 he began to record more information, such as the father\u2019s occupation, residence, and family connections. He also encouraged other vicars and rectors to follow suit. Some did, but the real boost to his scheme came when the archbishop of York encouraged the practice throughout the diocese in 1777. Some vicars obeyed, many did not, and many resented it and gave up after a short time. William\u2019s brother Thomas might have been in one of those latter groups, as the registers in his parishes show no such effort to record additional information.<\/span><\/p>\n Dade was also interested in local history\u2014but that interest seems to have come later than did his scheme to improve parish registers. It was perhaps his exposure to the old records stored in parish churches that inspired his interest in historical research. He was inducted into the Society of Antiquaries in 1783, and he began two books: one detailing the local history of Holderness, where he had attended school as a boy, and the other listing the births, marriages, and deaths of prominent people.15<\/sup><\/p>\n It wasn\u2019t recording extra information or being a better record-keeper that set Dade apart\u2014other clergy had similar inclinations.16<\/sup> For Dade, the switch to record more information did not come from a historical interest or passion for the past so much as it came from a concern for the future. As he wrote in the register when he began his efforts, \u201cThis scheme if properly put in execution will afford much clearer intelligence to the researches of posterity than the imperfect method hitherto generally pursued.\u201d17<\/sup> He reasoned that families in the future would want to know more about the past, particularly their personal past. What motivated him were future people and their needs; Dade was thinking of how his actions would echo beyond his lifetime into strangers\u2019 lives.<\/p>\n At its heart, this is what Ari Wallach, in a recent TED talk, described as \u201ctransgenerational thinking.\u201d18<\/sup> Wallach referred to an ethic that thinks beyond one\u2019s own comfort and considers how actions ripple into the future, long beyond an individual lifespan.<\/p>\n Implicit in Dade\u2019s actions and Wallach\u2019s argument are two aspects of human instinct: first, the ability to think about, imagine, and plan for the future, and second, the impulse and capacity to think of strangers\u2014to think beyond ourselves. The ability to plan for the future and to think about how today\u2019s actions will shape tomorrow is unique to humans.19<\/sup> It is an ability that separates us from all other living creatures.<\/p>\n Psychologist Daniel Gilbert nicely summed it up by saying, \u201cWe think about the future in a way that no other animal can, does, or ever has, and this simple, ubiquitous, ordinary act is a defining feature of our humanity.\u201d According to Gilbert, no chimpanzee \u201cweeps at the thought of growing old alone, or smiles as it contemplates its summer vacation, or turns down a Fudgsicle because it already looks too fat in shorts.\u201d20<\/sup> Only we have that honor\u2014even though we aren\u2019t always very good at using that skill to best serve ourselves and others.<\/span><\/p>\n We have another distinguishing characteristic that has great power, though we don\u2019t always use it powerfully or for good either: the ability to cooperate with strangers and to act in their best interest even in contradiction of our own interests. In fact, the ability to act cooperatively and even altruistically is one of the greatest achievements of humanity. Evolutionary biologists remark on this and assert that we are literally built to cooperate with others\u2014not just with those we know or are related to but with innumerable strangers.21<\/sup> And it isn\u2019t just cooperation; humans have evolved a unique capacity to care <\/i>about and have compassion for strangers\u2014to take responsibility for strangers.22<\/sup> We are built, in other words, to belong to one another.<\/p>\n In fact, without this ability, we could not form effective groups much larger than 150 people, but with this ability we harness the power of millions and billions. In such large groups, when we ignore this capacity for caring, then suicide, addiction, unhappiness, and avariciousness expand. But when we act on this impulse, large groups of humans are capable of\u2014and are biologically built for\u2014great goodness.23<\/sup> I don\u2019t think I need to detail the ways in which we have clearly not fully tapped into this goodness. Though we are built for compassion, for care, and for love, we are also\u2014in King Benjamin\u2019s formulation\u2014fallen, weak, incapable of acting on our best instincts, and enemies to all our best, even divine, impulses.24<\/sup> But the fact remains that we are built to cooperate with and belong to not just our kin but to all humanity.25<\/sup><\/p>\n Atheists, philosophers, historians, podcasters, Holocaust survivors, writers, therapists, military veterans, ministers, and psychologists concur with biologists: building lasting relationships and connections with other people is the only way to live happy and meaningful lives. Author and atheist Alain de Botton, whose essay on marriage relationships was the most-read article on the New York Times<\/i> website in 2016; On Being <\/i>podcast host Krista Tippett; concentration camp survivor Viktor Frankl; Christian social worker Bren\u00e9 Brown; war veteran and journalist Sebastian Junger; historian of Mormon theology Samuel Brown; Congregationalist historian and archivist Margaret Bendroth; Methodism\u2019s founder John Wesley; and BYU\u2019s own psychology professor Brent Slife do not, on the surface, seem to have much in common. But they all landed in the same spot: asserting that building relationships with others, loving others, is the most important work of humanity\u2014not the byproduct but the purpose of life. In Slife\u2019s words at a recent forum, loving others must be \u201can end, not . . . a means.\u201d26<\/sup> And in John Wesley\u2019s words, \u201cThe gospel of Christ knows of no religion but social; no holiness but social holiness.\u201d27<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n This winding through fields decidedly not related to my research, experience, and training may seem like a long sidetrack, but it demonstrates that when William Dade stated his reasons for adding more information to parish registers, he tapped into the apparently universal human ability to think about the future and the inclination to belong and connect. In that respect, he may not have been so exceptional, as his actions are ones that we could replicate. But it was his combination of these two human behaviors that made him exceptional. The social scientists, authors, and journalists I listed have emphasized the importance of relationships or have discussed the ability to plan for the future, but Dade did both simultaneously. He was thinking about relationships across time\u2014<\/i>across <\/i>vast stretches of time\u2014and he was thinking beyond the barrier of personal acquaintance to encompass strangers.<\/p>\n Many people before him thought about their famous ancestors or about their posterity or about enforcing rules of who constituted sufficiently illustrious ancestors and sufficiently legitimate posterity. Dade, on the other hand, stitched together his interest in the past to the lived, daily lives of the people whose details filled the books he kept and then stitched that to the concerns and desires of future strangers. That is not just transgenerational thinking; that is what I call genealogical consciousness. Genealogical consciousness is an ethic, a moral way of behaving based on seeing oneself and one\u2019s actions as inextricably linked with past, present, and future people\u2019s lives and hopes. Hoping future genealogists would have \u201cclearer intelligence\u201d in their research doesn\u2019t sound like much of a gift, but the real power in Dade\u2019s actions is that he considered himself and all those future strangers to be connected\u2014and he could do something for them, something that came with no possibility of reward for himself, something they would be grateful for. He saw them, frankly, as people, not as objects, not as abstractions, not as something unimportant to himself.<\/p>\n Genealogical consciousness means seeing how past, present, and future are connected\u2014again not in an abstract sense but in the lived reality of actual thinking and feeling people\u2014and how they and we are connected over time and space. This echoes an idea from Margaret Bendroth, the archivist at the Congregational Library:<\/p>\n Instead of defining ourselves through associations with once-famous people, or taking our ancestors too lightly by assuming they were not as complex as we are, we should want an encounter with the past that will challenge and deepen <\/i>[us].28<\/sup><\/p>\n Similarly, we need an encounter with the future that challenges and deepens us.<\/p>\n Most humans want to be remembered, to leave something that lasts beyond their lifespan, no matter the scale of that remembrance. In the words of Umberto Eco, \u201cWe [make] lists because we don\u2019t want to die.\u201d29<\/sup> Indeed, what are the book of Chronicles and all the pyramids, tombs, and masses for the dead if not hopeful expressions that we will be remembered? What else would have motivated the builder of my home in 1951 to write his name on plaster that was about to be canvassed and painted over, if not some vestigial hope that the recording of his name would grant him a measure of immortality that the bricks he used and the walls he built could not?<\/p>\n But Dade wasn\u2019t thinking of himself; he wasn\u2019t clamoring to be remembered. He was thinking of, well, us\u2014of future strangers whom he would never know and of our need to belong and be connected to something larger and longer-lasting than ourselves.<\/p>\n The posterity William Dade imagined appreciating his efforts was not his own. He remained childless until his death in 1790, as did his sister, who died in 1782, and his remaining brother, who died in 1806.30<\/sup> The detailed forms Dade created and which recorded his and his sister\u2019s deaths versus the sloppy but more typical account of his brother\u2019s burial show that Dade\u2019s innovation had limited reach. He and his family passed into obscurity. In fact, despite his importance to English genealogy, his family did not appear as a group on either of the two largest collections of online family trees until this summer, when in researching this talk I organized and grouped together the Dade family files on FamilySearch\u2019s family tree.<\/p>\n It wasn\u2019t just the knowledge of Dade\u2019s family that died out. Despite additional Church of England clergy adopting Dade\u2019s pattern, his remarkable idea did not survive long. The practice largely disappeared after 1813, when regulations about Church of England registers changed. Parish registers were then required to be kept in preprinted books that limited the flexibility that had allowed Dade to think of registers more expansively. Some vicars continued to squeeze the extra bits of information into the printed boxes, even into the 1840s. But the practice largely disappeared, never to return. And other than the people who research their ancestors in these records, no one knows about William Dade \u00adanymore\u2014well, except now all of you.<\/p>\n But all was not lost for genealogical consciousness. Joseph Smith, Wilford Woodruff, and Susa Young Gates took their personal religious and spiritual experiences and used them to think about all of humanity across all time and about our connections to one another and to God.31<\/sup><\/p>\n We should pause here and recognize Susa Young Gates\u2019s remarkable work, which is often less well known than Joseph Smith\u2019s or Wilford Woodruff\u2019s. Prominent in late-nineteenth-century and early-twentieth-century Mormon leadership, central to the creation of the Young Woman\u2019s Journal<\/i> and the Relief Society Magazine,<\/i> and active in the struggle for women\u2019s suffrage, Gates was also passionate about genealogy. In the 1890s she collected information from living relatives and traveled to archives in the East to conduct research.<\/p>\n In 1902 she fell seriously ill and received a blessing. In the blessing she was told that she would continue to perform temple work but that she would also \u201cdo a greater work than [she had] ever done before.\u201d32<\/sup> Her understanding of this blessing turned her from someone acquiring genealogical knowledge for herself and her family to someone deeply committed to genealogical consciousness. She wrote that while she had already been interested in temple work, she now \u201cfelt that I must do something more, something to help all the members of the Church.\u201d33<\/sup> After this, Gates became a formidable force in genealogical efforts for others.<\/p>\n Though the Church had established the Genealogical Society of Utah (GSU) (now the Family History Department of the Church) in 1894 and had genealogical libraries housed at temples, there was no Church-wide effort for genealogical education and training at the turn of the twentieth century. Gates worked with the GSU, published genealogical articles, worked to improve the indexing of temple ordinances, founded the Daughters of Utah Pioneers, wrote genealogy lessons, wrote the first genealogical how-to manual in the United States in 1912, and made family history work central to the work of the Relief Society. She did this for two decades, until the Church gradually assumed greater involvement and centralization of genealogical efforts after the 1920s\u2014which was her hoped-for goal all along.<\/p>\n Gates\u2019s perseverance is partly attributed to her strength of character, but I would assert that it was powered by genealogical consciousness\u2014a power that came when she felt called to do something more to benefit people beyond her own kin.<\/p>\n So what is genealogical consciousness for us? Some would claim that a largely Mormon audience is full of genealogical consciousness, but I want to push that idea a bit further and assert that a largely Mormon audience is full of genealogical knowledge and perhaps even a genealogically based identity, but those aren\u2019t the same as genealogical consciousness. Genealogical consciousness brings along with it an empathetic wisdom that knowledge alone cannot possess.<\/p>\n For me, genealogical knowledge is intriguing and thrilling. I have been filling out pedigree charts since I learned to write, and finding genealogical information is satisfying and exciting on its own terms. I dare say some of you find it equally satisfying and exciting\u2014probably about 2 to 5 percent of you (if my ward\u2019s statistics on family history work are typical). And while that group can and should expand\u2014which is, frankly, what my colleagues and I who teach family history majors hope <\/i>will happen\u2014it is unlikely that it will ever be the majority of people.<\/p>\n The good news is that though a passionate interest in gathering genealogical knowledge itself is far from widespread, a much larger group is interested in what genealogy can do for them and their families. For example, it is estimated that a third of adults in the United Kingdom have been online to look for their ancestors.34<\/sup> Most argue that this prevalent interest comes from genealogy\u2019s ability to give people a sense of identity. Undoubtedly, the focus on identity is the current obsession in Western genealogy, in the marketing schemes of the three-billion-dollar-a-year genealogical industry, and even in some aspects of Mormon genealogical practice.<\/p>\n But William Dade and Susa Young Gates didn\u2019t stop with personal identity. Finding an anchor for identity is valuable because it gives a sense of roots in a time that feels rootless\u2014even replacing religion, in one Englishman\u2019s estimation, as something one can believe in.35<\/sup> But on its own, the search for identity can bring only partial belonging.<\/p>\n Rattling on about \u201cendless genealogies\u201d in order to prove our special status is not only a tedious thing to do; it is, if we take Paul literally, a destructive practice.36<\/sup> And the Savior Himself warned that being Abraham\u2019s seed was as meaningless as being a rock if it was not accompanied by a humbler way of living.37<\/sup><\/p>\n If genealogy stops with individual identity, it will never fully jettison its exclusionary tendencies. Genealogy\u2019s historical association with elitist and racist claims shows that it is too easy to slip into tribalism, eugenics, racism, rabid isolationist nationalism, and us-versus-them-ism. If we focus solely on our own identity, it is easy to myopically think that only our <\/i>ancestors matter. We become all \u201cmanner of -ites,\u201d to borrow a phrase.38<\/sup> A genealogical understanding based solely on personal identity inevitably leads to excluding others\u2019 identities, whether they are based in race, gender, ethnicity, sexuality, DNA, nationality, or any other category. Genealogical consciousness, on the other hand, doesn\u2019t just avoid these pitfalls; it prevents them. It has the power to obliterate them, to completely dissolve the destructive boundaries between us and them, to starkly remind us that there is no \u201cthem\u201d and that there is only \u201cus,\u201d and to pull people together despite<\/i> differences.<\/p>\n If instead we see genealogical knowledge and even identity as tools, as means to an end, then we are on the way to genealogical consciousness. We often reverse this, prizing knowledge over the wisdom of consciousness. We race to find more names and make the consumption of more information more important than getting to know those who held the names we seek. This is meaningless and exhausting as we chase after ever more elusive proof of our righteous genealogical knowledge, as we constantly learn but never come to a knowledge of the truth.39<\/sup> We tire ourselves endlessly in the doing and miss the opportunity to become, thinking we can save getting to know them for \u201clater.\u201d But getting to know them is the point. It is where the real power lies\u2014not the other way around. To quote from Philippians, \u201cIf . . . there is . . . any consolation from love\u201d or \u201cany compassion and sympathy\u201d in Christ, we need to also find them in one another. We should \u201cdo nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility regard others as better than [ourselves].\u201d40<\/sup><\/p>\n Genealogical consciousness goes beyond mere knowledge or pursuit of personal or group identity. Instead it makes us stop to consider and to reckon both with others\u2019 lives and choices and with our own. We can also imagine our shared humanity with people in the past and the choices they confronted.<\/p>\n I remember sitting in an English archive reading the papers of the Travell family. One day, while reading Anne Travell\u2019s diary from August 1780, I discovered that her \u201cdear sister[-in-law] and friend\u201d Martha had died suddenly at the age of forty-one.41<\/sup> I teared up, mourning the loss of Martha. I stopped myself when I realized that everyone <\/i>from 1780 is dead. But then as I considered my response further, I realized I was not shedding tears for Martha\u2019s death as much as I was for the pain her death had caused her family and friends. Anne wrote that she spent the rest of that evening writing twenty \u201cdreadful\u201d letters informing friends and family of Martha\u2019s death.42<\/sup> I could imagine how dreadful that was, and I could imagine the pain of losing a lifelong friend and a much-loved sister-in-law\u2014a person I too had grown to love as I had read her letters. I further considered what a devastating blow it would be to me to lose a sibling or a sibling-in-law. It was as if, in that moment, time and distance between Anne and me collapsed and virtually disappeared, replaced with a brief moment of \u00adconnection and empathy.<\/p>\n If, like Dade, we pause to consider the long-since dead, we can pivot to considering present and future relationships. As Margaret Bendroth put it:<\/p>\n The choice is not to load our ancestors down with honors or run away from them as fast as we can\u2014our .<\/i> .<\/i> . faith requires us to take the past seriously and to receive its people warmly and wisely. It requires us to be generous, and in a fundamental way truly inclusive.<\/i>43<\/sup><\/p>\n I would say it doesn\u2019t stop there. Because developing genealogical consciousness requires that we think about strangers in the past, it develops the possibility of thinking about strangers in the present and strangers in the future and about how our relationships and actions will last beyond death and echo into future strangers\u2019 lives. In doing so, genealogical consciousness makes heavy demands: it demands that we act more compassionately and more Christlike.<\/p>\n In conclusion, I am going to explain my title. As a historian of the eighteenth century, I have grown accustomed to the long, narrative titles typically used by that century\u2019s authors. And as a lover of fine children\u2019s literature, I am amused by E. L. Konigsburg\u2019s title of one of my favorite children\u2019s books: Jennifer, Hecate, Macbeth, William McKinley, and Me, Elizabeth<\/i>.<\/p>\n But while those facts explain the long, narrative style of my title, they don\u2019t explain the content. And they certainly don\u2019t explain the dead cats. Why didn\u2019t I just entitle the talk \u201cDeveloping a Genealogical Consciousness,\u201d since that\u2019s the point<\/i> of the talk? I did not title it that because I had the suspicion\u2014backed by decades of personal experience\u2014that if any words resembling genealogy<\/i> or family history<\/i> were used to describe something to be presented to an audience of Latter-day Saints, attendance would either be virtually nonexistent or would consist entirely of those already seriously, passionately, and rabidly interested in family history. And as much as I love that latter group\u2014and in fact count myself among them\u2014I wanted to reach an audience of people who might not think they have anything to learn about the reasons for genealogical pursuits or who feel guilty or overwhelmed when the words family history<\/i> are uttered. I did not want to burden that group any further; I wanted to offer an additional perspective or alternative approach.<\/p>\n Our shared theology is replete with genealogical consciousness and its potential to create meaningful change for the better. As Patrick Q. Mason has put it:<\/p>\n This <\/i>[Mormon] image of being knit together, with the children of God in all our diversity inextricably and intricately interwoven, is at the heart of Mormonism\u2019s social ideal. It reflects a life-affirming theology predicated on the notion that the entire family of God can and will be eternally bound together\u2014that heaven is less about where we are than who we are with and the quality of our relationships.<\/i>44<\/sup><\/p>\n Genealogical consciousness is merely a label meant to underscore that relationships with other people in the past, present, and future are durable\u2014built for the eternities\u2014and that from them we can access previously untapped mines of divine power. Simply put, we cannot afford to treat genealogy the way we have\u2014as something, to quote an acquaintance of mine, \u201cthat dude in the Third Ward does\u201d or as something that is satisfied by producing stacks and stacks of temple names in order to show them off or to rattle off numbers during Sunday School to impress or guilt others. If that is why we do it, then doing so is the only reward we will ever have.<\/p>\n More than something that that dude in the Third Ward or your great aunt does, genealogical consciousness is a way of being, a way of thinking about your place within and responsibility to the generations surrounding you. It holds a promise to erode racism and sexism; to reduce to rubble centuries of hatred and discrimination; to bind us together when all other ways of connecting only seem to drive us ever farther apart; and to take our instinct to belong, shatter its tribal proclivities, and replace them with inclinations to Zion. If Elijah was meant to return in order to save the world from being an utter waste, then there is more for us to do with the manifestation of the Spirit that bears his name.<\/p>\n \n \n","protected":false},"template":"","tags":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nDead People<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
Dade\u2019s Parish Records<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
Two Aspects of Human Instinct<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
Genealogical Consciousness<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
A Need to Be Remembered<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
Susa Young Gates<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
Genealogical Knowledge and Identity<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
True Genealogical Consciousness<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n